It gets so hyper-focused on the *current* possibility that it ignores the millions of other Potential Crushes. What my brain forgets to account for is the multitude of possibilities out there. How a simple emotion can feel all-consuming.Īll of this helps me to get to the bottom of a crush.ĭoes the thought of him make me feel like liquid honey? Yes.ĭoes this mean he HAS to like me back, otherwise I will just feel a terrible loss? No. I’m also very familiar with my highly-sensitive nervous system, and how attuned it is to everything. I’m starting to understand how my brain works. Because I have now been with my brain for 32 years, I’ve started to notice patterns. Let’s face it, that’s still the first thought I have to this day…īut, let’s continue to examine. When I was younger, my immediate thought upon feeling this feeling was “This is LOOOOOOVE!!! I hope he likes me back!!!! Because this is LOVE!!” You literally feel a yearning in your heart-area. They feel like liquid honey bubbling in the middle of your chest. And let’s also add a smidge of ADHD into the mix, which can be a recipe for *constantly* focusing on that one thing you’re most into (AKA obsessed with) right now. What I’ve noticed is that Highly Sensitive People like me can feel things more intensely than others, and this can lead to confusion at times. There’s nothing wrong with having feelings. Sure, I had that initial urge to blame myself for being “overly eager,” but this time I’m examining what all of this is about.įirst, let’s examine the feelings. I’ve had so many crushes in my life that I couldn’t help but obsess over.īut this time I’m taking a step back. I can’t believe that the feelings I experience in this life are so intense that one little interaction with a guy is enough to make me full-on obsess.
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